Monday, December 23, 2013

fabrics, and gown shapes and veil lengths...OH MY!


I was having an in depth conversation with a young lady this past weekend and it occurred to me…unfortunately she has no idea HOW to describe her perfect wedding dress. The vision has come together in her head but it’s having a hard time doing much else...No shade!  In my experience the most commonly confused dresses are the fit and flair and mermaid….Yes so there is a difference if you were unaware! Wedding dress shopping introduces you to new fabrics, gown shapes, veil lengths, dress lengths, embellishments, types of waist styles, sleeve options…like honestly it can be quite confusing! Your wedding dress is one of the MOST important garments sooo it’s important that you get a handle on the terms!

·        A-line -- A fitted bodice that has a modest flair in the skirt, A-line wedding-dress designs are among the most popular sold today. This is a universal classic that suits almost any body type from the curvy chicks to the skinty ones…

·        Ball gown -- This is the fairytale princess dress style you remember from Cinderella, Lady Diana, and Grace Kelly's ceremonies. It has a long, flowing skirt and a fitted bodice. It has lots of fullness, created with petticoats, hoops, OR too much crinoline…you get the idea.

·        Blouson -- Blouson designs are, as the name implies, blousy. They're gathered at the waist or an inch or two below. Not very popular!

·        Drop waist -- Flaunting either a loose or fitted bodice, drop-waist gowns add styling that accentuates the area just below the waistline or the waist itself. It looks the BEST on curvy women….gives those hips all the attention!!

·        Asymmetrical -- Dresses with features like one shoulder strap or layering that creates an uneven, spatial arrangement or silhouette.

·        Empire -- Distinguished by a high waist, hitting just below the bust. The empire styling elongates the body, minimizes pear-shaped figures and can conceal a disproportionately large or small bust. I like empire waist shirts because it’s freaking forgiving…so imagine what a good ole tight empire wedding dress can hide…WONDERS!

·        Mermaid -- Also called a trumpet or fishtail design, the mermaid dress hugs the body and begins to flair, usually at the knee. The flare can be modest or exaggerated. This design accentuates a woman's figure and shows particularly well on tall, athletic women. Although I love the mermaid…it can sometimes take the curvy bride, or the shorter bride a little longer to find a flattering dress in this style…

·        Mini -- A gown with a hemline that falls at or above the knee…Cocktaily!

·        Princess -- Created from unbroken vertical panels (that will suck you in), this style can take a classic A-line shape or have a more exaggerated flare. It's considered a slimming design that will suit most body types.

·        Sheath -- Unconstructed, long and slim, the sheath is body-hugging and doesn't have a fitted waist…not as forgiving!

·        Boat neck -- This style rests along the shoulder points, revealing the collar bone. It's also known as a bateau. Umm literally forms a banana boat around your neck…

·        Cowl neck -- Loosely draped fabric, styled either high or low at the neck and bust characterize this component

·        Drop shoulder -- A look consisting of bands or sleeves that start below the curve of the upper arm…nice shoulders and a good ole skinty collar bone are heavily accentuated with a drop shoulder!!

·        Halter -- The top is angled at a diagonal along the outer bust and neck to fasten behind the neck…has always seemed clubbish to me tho...

·        Jewel -- A neckline that follows the curve at the base of the neck and does not include a collar...always seemed Playboyish to me lol

·        Portrait collar -- This drop-shouldered look consists of a folded, sometimes exaggerated collar

·        Sabrina -- This style is characterized by a straight neckline beginning well inside the curve of the shoulder

·        Scoop neck -- This neckline can be daring or modest with this component but ends in a curve instead of a point.

·        Spaghetti straps -- A neckline characterized by very slender, supportive straps at the shoulder…some brides automatically go here for the support of their D’s…but a good strapless bra and good alternations eliminate the need!

·        Square neck -- This neckline has a horizontal line across the front of the bodice terminating in sheer vertical straps or shaping on either side. Viewed from the front, it looks like a cutout in the shape of a square or rectangle.

·        Strapless -- As the name implies, this look leaves the shoulders bare. This style is supported by the structure of the bodice...which is why I love a good strapless with a corset back...when you need support after one too many dances...it's there!

·        Sweetheart -- A component characterized by a curve over each breast to dip into a shallow or deep V like the top of a Valentine's heart. THE SINGLE most popular neck line…

·        V-neck -- This neckline is defined by the shape of a plunging or shallow letter V (my friend's kid that this will be my collar bc I love to show the girls...they don't know me AT ALL)

·        Ballerina -- At or just above the ankle

·        Floor -- Brushing the floor or slightly above…The most popular…

·        Hi-lo -- Also called an intermission hem, it hits at mid-calf in front and is floor length in back...not to say it can't be pulled off, but I've honestly never truly seen it done!

·        Mini -- Above the knee

·        Street -- Just covering the knee

·        Tea -- Terminating a few inches above the ankle

·        Bell -- Snug to the elbow and then flaring to the wrist

·        Capped -- Very short sleeves, closely fitted and slightly rounded

·        Dolman -- Joined to the bodice above the elbow and tapering to the wrist. Also called a bat sleeve

·        Kimono -- Sleeves extending into the main column of the dress and lengthening deep and wide to the wrist

·        Puff -- Gathered or pleated at the shoulder. Depending on the amount of volume involved, can include: Juliet, bishop, leg-of-mutton, balloon, poet and pouf

·        Three-quarter length -- Terminating between the elbow and wrist

·        Tulip -- Overlapping fabric that creates a series of petal shapes

·        Batiste -- A fine, sheer and delicate cotton or cotton/linen blend

·        Brocade -- A heavy, woven fabric with a raised or sculpted design, typically only worn during cool seasons

·        Chantilly -- A fine, mesh lace that often features floral designs outlined with silk threads….I appreciate this in a regular dress. It’s soooo CLASSY

·        Chiffon -- Sheer, mesh fabric that can be made from silk, cotton or polyester

·        Crepe -- Lightweight, soft fabric that appears slightly crimped or crinkled (Listen leave this to your tablecloths if you absolutely MUST have it)

·        Crepe de Chine -- A thinner variety of the crepe fabric described above

·        Crinoline -- A stiff foundation fabric that's used as an underskirt with a ball gown style wedding dress...I did a blog in the past about dying my crinoline...man I love THAT!

·        Organza -- A sheer, fine, translucent and textured fabric made from silk, polyester or nylon…you’ll find this a lot

·        Satin -- Shiny fabric that's usually very smooth and densely woven. It's available in many different weights and color….it’s thick enough to be forgiving but definitely wedding

·        Shantung -- Rough-textured woven silk or synthetic fabric that crushes easily

·        Taffeta – Reportedly, a high-end (don’t know if I’d characterize it as high-end), woven fabric with a slight sheen that's often reserved for fine garments (or rain coats in my opinion lol). It's available in two varieties: Piece-dyed taffeta, which is soft and often used as a lining material, and heavier, stiffer yarn-dyed taffeta used in evening gowns and wedding dresses.

·        Tulle -- Sheer, stiff mesh made from rayon, cotton, silk or nylon…one of my faves

·        Velvet -- A fabric with a distinctive pile, velvet can be made with silk, cotton or a number of blends. It's typically a cool-weather choice….I can’t think of a single time velvet should be the move lol

·        Voile -- Very lightweight, semi-transparent fabric woven from cotton, linen, synthetics and cotton blends

We mustn’t forget the veils…

·        Brush -- Short, just touching the floor

·        Court -- A little fuller than the brush style, train drapes starting at the waist

·        Watteau -- About the same length as a brush train, characterized by a single panel attached at the shoulders

·        Chapel -- Dramatic but still easy to handle, extends about 3 feet behind the bride

·        Cathedral -- Dramatic and formal, can extend 6 feet or more behind the bride

Learning key terms can assist you in wedding dress shopping. Trust, it’ll be far less frustrating for EVERYONE involved if you can describe what you like and what you don't!!!

Merry CHRISTmas…Happy Birthday Jesus month all…

XOXOXO

Monday, December 9, 2013

LaME wEdding Deejay????


Latest buzz?!?!?!

My assistance was needed to find a Deejay!!! (Go Deejay, cause that’s my deejay <----- do y’all remember when that song went SUPER HARD? Lol, I hope I’m not showing my age). Back to my client, the deejay will spin for the last 4 hours of a reception coming up in the middle of 2014.  When the bride springs for a live band, it can sometimes be hard to keep that momentum or even change the mood entirely for the PARTTAAYYYY! Honestly, a deejay can be one of the HARDEST vendors to choose… if they weren’t referred by an event planner (like meeeeee lol) then yeah, you could waste a whole LOT of money and be completely unsatisfied! Seeing as how I don’t want that to happen to my beloved couple, I thought I’d go ahead and agree to assist!

I ask this in ALL seriousness… Do you want your deejay to play ONLY what you’ve selected or do you want him to do HIS JOB and know what to play when? If you’re considering the first option, chile get you an iPod and hook it up to Bose! But if you’re considering the latter….remember you pay for what you get! I’ve witnessed a MESS (well haven’t we all?), a complete and epic FAILURE indeed! You see sometimes the couples have their own vendors they come to the table with, so yeah I can’t say anything! But be WEARY of white collar men moonlighting as a deejay and wanting to gift you THEIR services. Sometimes it’s just best to take that good ole gift card instead of their services…just saying. No shade! Lol

My client is only looking for a deejay…she didn’t ask for a deejay with a stage, who will emcee, have a live percussionist, snow machine, fog or lights. The average deejay is between $100-$300 per HOUR; it can definitely be more for a Saturday wedding as the couple is competing with other weddings as well as CLUBS the deejay may work at. Be sure to think about that! The deejays I’ve had the pleasure of working with are between $1250-$1950 for 4-6 hours.

I recommended after considering the client’s needs as well as who would be accepted at her venue… (drum roll please)

Dj Paradyme


Joe Bunn
m.bunndjcompany.com

Mike Morse



Remember IT IS possible to ruin your wedding with a LAME deejay!!!

~Kisses