Sure they can make your life outstanding and add value and all of that jazz but they can also be terrors! For that reason, I recommend keeping the children count in your wedding party low! Trying to coordinate adults is difficult, trying to coordinate children can sometimes be impossible. They have no sense of true responsibility, so one day they will commit to being a flower girl and on the day of, cry and bolt to the front to sit with Grandma…leaving the flowers in the wind. Be cautious on which kids you incorporate....they are a nice element to your day….but only integrate those children with home training! Home Training you've WITNESSED! Be sure that parents of these children understand what is expected of their little ones….rehearsals, dinners, practices, behavior, dresses, or tuxedo rentals. A Surprise of ANY sort is the perfect way to get disappointed and frustrated when the children do not show due to a disgruntle parent.
The trend….
Switch the roles of the flower girls and ring bearers! It’s super different and totally unconventional! If you have many little girls in the family and can’t find a little boy…allow one of the girls to be the ring bearer. It’s not a written rule which sex serves in which role….so change it to fit your special day!
~TTYL
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